Today, as I was thinking about this, I suddenly realised something. We, as human beings often fall in love and embrace the feeling of being in love and being loved. It feels very good because its not just oneself feeling it but also another party to boost the feeling. And its mutual. But to think about it, the person we need love most is actually from ourselves as without it, we would not be able to be truly happy. Its been a long while since I gave up on someone loving me as I had somehow believed that no one could accept me the way I am. As a result, I learnt to love myself more as there was no one to love me. Learning to love oneself means to love yourself even after all the mistakes and blunders you have made. It really isn't easy as we all have been thought that when we make mistakes, we need to pay for it. And by trying to pay for it, we often forget the most important thing of that particular mistake. To learn from it...We instead keep focusing on the mistake and sometimes, we make even more mistakes as we were focusing on the wrong thing; the mistake. Sometimes, we just make sure we never let it occur again by avoiding something that leads to it. Often, we do not realise the thing that actually caused it because we didn't actually analyse it. We just believe whatever we hear from others or what we presume..That is why a lot of people go through life without exploring much further from our comfort zone; we always want to avoid pain.
Since I went for the Millionaire Mind Intensive, I have learnt to not let my mind take me out whenever there is something that I feel uneasy doing. I've learnt to see what opportunity there is and just go for it anyways...Doing this has brought me further than where I would have dared to go back when I always did what I felt good doing.....And I know there is more to conquer in life...No boundaries...
Sunday, April 19, 2009
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